Hi, I’m Inez!
It’s great to have you here. You must be here because you’re struggling to find reliable information on relationships and sexuality anywhere. Everywhere you turn is another dose of pop psychology style relationship advice or recycled and tired, old relationship tropes.
My name is Inez, and I’m a full-time, licensed therapist that works exclusively with couples. With me, you get to stay anonymous while receiving science-backed, research-anchored insights from a qualified, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (that’s me!).
Since 2018, I’ve worked with hundreds of couples from all walks of life, helping them tackle modern intimacy challenges that are much more common than you think, like:
Intimacy issues in marriage
Mismatched libido and desire
Feeling stuck in negative emotional ruts together
Constant conflict with little to no repair
Living more like roommates than lovers
Feeling disconnected or rejected
Issues with sexual compatibility in relationships
Aversions to sex & pleasure
Infidelity
No matter what’s holding your relationships back from feeling more love, care, and sense of aliveness, I’m here to give you a starting point to move forward from. I want to help you reconnect with your partner without shame or pressure.
My hope? To help modern couples feel less isolated in their struggles and explore their sexuality, intimacy issues in marriage, and more – all in a healthful, informed, research-backed way.
Revive Lost Connections and Foster Deeper Intimacy
After hosting 1000s of therapy-room conversations, I’ve seen firsthand how many couples can be sitting right next to each other yet be miles apart. Most of the time, the struggle isn’t that they’ve lost their love. It’s that no one ever taught them how to love under today’s impossible expectations of self and other.
Today, I’m here to give you an earnest and judgment-free space to explore intimacy, desire, and connection – without shame or fear. Through my relationship podcast, upcoming online relationship course, and downloadable resources, my goal is simple: To help you feel more like yourself with your significant other.
While science and research are fundamental to my work, connection isn’t a formula – and love isn’t a checklist. It lives in the small, invisible space between you and your person, and I’m here to help you nurture that space.
My Core Values:
Curiosity
Asking gentle questions that open doors (instead of closing them).
Compassion
Giving couples room to be human without judgment, fear, or shame.
Inclusivity
Affirming and honoring all genders, sexualities, and relationship styles.
Humor
Because sometimes, the best way to move through discomfort is to giggle a little.
Consent
Emotional, relational & sexual. All intimacy starts with feeling safe enough to choose.
Clarity
Speaking plainly and clearly – because the most powerful truths don’t need fancy pop psychology jargon.
Ready When You Are
Whether you’re here for the guides, the relationship podcast episodes, or simply want to feel a little less alone through the hardest parts of love, this is where Being Alive begins. Ask a question, download sex and relationship resources, or wait to hear all about our upcoming course for couples. No pressure. Just 100% possibility. You in?
